Monday, July 27, 2009

"You illegal little b*tch": Would the battle between blacks and browns ever end?


A few years back, I got the opportunity to see the play Platanos and Collard Greens, which exposes the ongoing feud between blacks and Latinos in the context of interracial relationships. I must say I never truly experienced this type of racism mainly because at first glance people think I am black. More importantly due to my dark skin complexion I can easily navigate both worlds and be easily accepted. I have dated a lot of African American men (it seems to be my preference) and I often hear phrases like "Oh, I didn't know your girl was Spanish, well at least she is black" or "You are not really in a interracial relationship because you look black." However, interracial relationships is not the only battle field between blacks and Latinos. In this recession Latinos mainly illegal immigrants are being accused of stealing jobs from African Americans, which has led them to be unemployed.

Now, lets keep it real unfortunately the majority of the jobs done by illegal immigrants are not the type of jobs done by African Americans. I am yet to meet an African American who mows grass for $5 p/h or works in agriculture making $5p/h sometimes even less. Often as a result of their illegal status immigrants, which comes from all over the world are forced to take those types jobs in their quest for the SueƱo Americano (American Dream). Their intent is not to come to America to deprive others of their rightful jobs, far from it. All these immigrants want to do is save money, take care of their families back "home" and one day go back to give them a better future. Although there are a lot of illegal immigrants in this country, there also an equal amount of legal immigrants whom like myself pay taxes and do things the "right way".

A few days ago, I was ridding the bus on my way to work, and as the bus driver pulled up to the next top everyone ran over to try to get in line to secure a place in the already crowded vehicle. (If you are not from NYC and have no idea what riding the MTA is like, here is a brief description. You pay your fare, get inside and mind your business. If it happens to be rush hours forget about sitting down, and prepare to be bumped, pushed and stepped on by passengers who want to get to their destination because the bus is always crowded.) With that being said the bus driver (who happens to be a Latino) opened the doors and allowed everyone to come inside, suddenly I hear an African Woman yell "You illegal little b*tch, don't you dare challenge me". At this point I looked over to see who she was talking to, and I saw a little girl who couldn't be older than 8 years of age. I was in shock, because the woman was yelling at her and calling her names and cursing every Spanish person on that bus, because the little girl bumped her on her way in. The anger in that woman's voice was indescribable and it really made me think about the "Blacks vs Browns" battles everyone talks about but I had yet to experience. However do we really have to battle each other instead of helping one another?

Please post your thoughts on this issue and any stories you might have! I am extremely interested on what everyone has to say about this topic!

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Hair Growth Challenge Half Point!


About a month ago I began my hair growth challenge! I am happy to say, that it has shown promising results! My hair has grown at least 1 inch and is looking healthier and stronger than ever. I am very excited because it has been an interesting journey, I had to learn how not to use heat on my hair and still look fly. Living is really about learning, and often we do not know our options are until we explore new possibilities and try new things!

I still do the regime, but I have changed a few things. For instance, due to lack of time I go to the Dominicans once every week to get my washing set! I co-wash when I have time which, unfortunately is not that often. I still deep condition every weekend which maintains my hair soft and gorgeous! Ladies this really works and as you see the pictures you will find that am telling you the truth! Did I mention its been 7 weeks since my last relaxer! I have 5 more weeks to go till I reach my 12 week goal and I cant wait to see what the final length will be.

If you have any questions please let me know and if you have been doing this challenge post your picture so that we can see your progress!

Thank you and enjoy the pictures!

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Co-Washing Hair for Growth Challenge

Hey Ladies!

In the last year, I have tried at least four different hair styles due mainly to my sisters' influence. I went from straight to curly, from long to short, and even ventured out into different colors. Last week I decided to cut my baby one last time for the next 12 months, and I must say I am not used to this length at all. One of my lovely sorority sisters told me about a series of blogs and youtube videos addressing healthy hair growth and different techniques to just have longer and stronger hair.

I would like to share some of these techniques with you and welcome you to be part of the Summer Co-washing Hair for Growth Challenge. One of the most helpful websites I found is http://www.patienceforlonghair.com, however feel free to go youtube and look at the videos. Ladies I suggest you join this online community because it has a lot of wonderful tools you can use to make sure your hair growth is continuous and healthy.

2009 Summer Co-Washing Hair for Growth Challenge

This summer I will be growing my hair for 2 months from June 9th to August 9th by following a strict regime to get my hair to be longer and healthier before I go back to school.

I will be using the following products:
  • Shampoo and Conditioner by Organic Olive Oil
  • Deep Conditioner by Organic Olive Oil
  • Moisturizer by Organic Olive Oil
  • Growth Oil by Organic Olive Oil
***Note: If you already have a set of products you use, do not change them just get the matching products you do not have.**
  1. Wash your hair with the conditioner (co-wash) at least 2 times a week .
  2. After you wash your hair make sure you seal the moisture with the growth oil.
  3. Wash your hair with the shampoo, conditioner and deep condition your hair one a week (preferably on weekends).
  4. After you wash your hair make sure you seal the moisture with the growth oil.
  5. After you seal in the moisture, air dry your hair or use cool heat to dry it.
  6. Once your hair is dried, you can wrap it or set it any way you want.
Please let me know your progress and post pictures to show your growth! I will be updating you all on my progress on a by weekly basis!

This is my before photo, which I will repost once I have reached my deadline.



Good luck and Enjoy your regime!

Is The Recession, Causing Unemployment Depression!

How long are we going to stay in this recession people?

I been looking for a summer job/internship since March and I am still unemployed. It is so depressing, because everywhere I go people tell me they do not have money for interns because the recession has forced them to cut their budget! I applied to over 60 jobs and only heard back from 15, 10 of which where unpaid! I don't want to be rude, but who wants to work for free? Everyone has bills, and financial responsibilities some type of monetary compensation is necessary.

It is so frustrating to go out looking for work and getting no for an answer, or having to stay at home due to the lack of employment. I have been trying to deal with this issue for the last three weeks to the best of my ability and it has been one of the hardest things I have done. I am convinced I have been suffering from Unemployment Depression. I have found myself really down at the fact that I cannot find a job.

So how have I dealt with this depression?

For Starters, I got a hobby! I began blogging more, I have found a lot of interesting posts which I will share with you all.

Secondly, I began an unpaid internship with Social Services of Hip Hop. Please check out the website-sshiphop.com, and follow us on twitter at twitter.com/sshiphop.

Lastly, I have been spending a lot of time at home. Mommy always said "if you do not have enough money to pay for your cab, food, drinks, and any emergency stay home" Lets just say I am staying home for a while! I am still looking for a paid position but in the mean time I am going to invest my time into being productive!

Please let me know how you are dealing with this recession and what tips do you have for those who are going through unemployment depression!